little moments....

"It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped."
Tony Robbins

Today i was standing next to the ocean, and i realized how small we really are and how quickly things  change...the tear on my cheek was so minuscule  compared to the mass of water next to me.. Life is all about moments, moments that define us, moments that make or break relationships...

it only take one moment, a second in time for everything to change..

In a moment you can uncover a lie that will destroy a friendship, one that you thought could last lifetime. In some ways losing a friend hurts more than losing a significant other, this is the person who you trusted your secrets too, the person you laughed and cried with.  and then in an instant it crumbles to the ground... but you realize there are more important things in life than being bitter, and you have to let the memories out weight regrets...in fact there shouldn't even be regrets, lives too short...so for you my friend... thank you... 

and in another moment...

it can set you free, I've been holding on to a hope and dream for over a year and today i realized its time to set you free. nothing in the world means more to me than you...but the truth is your far away and theres no guarantee you will be home. i can't live my life holding onto something that may never become a reality. I'm letting so much slip through my fingers while I'm waiting on you to come home. All the dreams and promise are fluttering through my head and heart, which are in a constant battle. even though my head wins in this instant my heart will always keep you close...this doesn't mean my feeling have changed...i adore you with everything i am, but i have to start living. Who knows if when you come home   where ill be but if we are truly meant to be then this is all irrelevant. You will always have a piece of my heart DJK.

And in this moment, i start over....its not going to easy, its going to be really really hard but who knows what my next moment will bring me...

Alway live for moments..

XX- D

Three For Thursdayyy

Happy Happy Thursday!!!! I apologize for the lack of updates but finals got the best of me...but I'm back and ready for a great edition of 3 for Thursday!

I don't know about you guys but around here its starting to feeling like spring...so this week i will do my 3 must haves for spring break!

The only thing you really need to have a great break is your friends!

No matter where you go; they are the people you have the MOST fun with

So grab up the people you love most and have some fun!

Fun summer drinks!

Try something new (:

but please be respsonible when drinking!

you want to be able to remember how much fun you had!

Some times all you need is a good book! 

so grab one and take a break!

XX- D

Twilight Killed Romance.

A few weeks ago i was walking to though Target and I over heard a conversation, and being the creep i am, i decided this conversation was worth my time. (by the way they were having a very loud conversation in public, it was like they WANTED me to listen)  Anyway..it went as such...
Girl 1 "Honestly i think Twilight is the most romantic movie ever.."
Girl 2 "OMG i knowww, i wish i could date a vampire."
Girl 3 "OMG or a werewolf...they are always so hot."
Girl 1"i know right, they just have a sexy gene."
Girl 2 "I love the way Edward looks at Bella."

ME: SPEECHLESS.....
first of all...He looks at her like he wants to EAT her...
2nd of all she always looks like she's constipated.

But seriously...how in the world does Twilight even classify as romance? Its absolutely heartbreaking to me that girls think this is romance. Has our society seriously dumbed down the idea of romance that far? if you ask me, some guy watching me sleep is considered stalking not romantic...Not to mention the idea of actually wanting to date a vampire...this has gotten out of hand.
Twilight has 'staked' the standards for REAL heartfelt romance...

What happened to the 'Gone With the Wind' or 'Casablanca' standards of romance? When a guy actually respected a woman?  Where you could watch the movie and see them fall in love...not them having one date and then something going wrong...and then falling into bed with each other. Somewhere along the lines we as a society decided that sex was the definition of love and romance. This is ridiculous...the last 5 minutes of 'Breakfast at Tiffany's' has more romance in on kiss than all these cheesy romance movies made in the past 10 years combined.
Don't believe me? have a look for yourself...

However this what we consider romance now...

It's a travesty honesty...what kind of impression are we giving young woman.? That sex is the only way to fall in love. Or its okay to not have standards. Let's be real...we are killing romance. i mean it doesn't actually stand a change when these Romantic Comedies are setting the bar so low. All i know with images like this floating around its no wonder chivalry is dead. I'd love to see a shift in this, real heart breaking romance but in a era of sequels, prequels, and sex sells- i don't see this happening anytime soon. 

While the majority of girls buy into this ROCOM bullshit...i on the other hand believe it's better to have realistic  standards than sell out to a commercialized standard of "love". So you better believe this girl will stick to higher standards of romance...even i will remain part of a dying breed. 

Keep it Classy-

XX-D