R.I.P Chivalry

Call me a hopeless romantic but when i watch  movies like 'Breakfast At Tiffany's' or  'Roman Holiday' (Yes I'm a sucker for Audrey Hepburn movies)  and i can't help but wonder what happen to the romance?
When did it become acceptable to smack a girl on her butt?
OR when did lame pick-up lines come into play?

MORE importantly when did buying flowers just because go out of style?

 When did it become "old-school" to open doors for girls? 

 Or lame to pullout chairs? 

Oh Boys, i promise you a little respect and conversation goes along way with girls! Not every girl is okay with being treated like a "random hook up". In fact some of us still have class and wanted to be treated as equals. Oh and a little secret boys, intelligence is sexy...

XX-D